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It’s difficult to pin them all down, and of course labeling always risks pigeon holing, but here are the major archetypes that Dovey and I were able to come up with so far. There is, of course, lots of crossover between the various archetypes:
The Daddy
His view of the perfect relationship is one of care and indulgence, as well as discipline, as if having a child in his care. There are different “age groups” within this category that his charge regresses to, each having a significant effect on how the dynamic works (stern daddy, coloring books, or even toddler stuff).
The Man of the House
This form of dominance can occur within or outside of BDSM, and generally doesn’t go far beyond spanking. It follows a more “traditional” set of roles where the man is in charge and his woman serves and supports him, like the 1950s as depicted in old television shows of the era.
The Pet Trainer
He prefers treating his sub like an animal pet, making her act out things the way a particular animal would, and setting up an environment to reinforce that.
The Slave Owner
He treats her like a slave in the literal sense of the word. Her rights are restricted in whatever ways he sees fit, and her body belongs to him, available for any use at any time.
The Online Dom
He only dominates online, weaving beautiful narratives and scenes with subs. His life in the real world will usually be drastically different. He may even be married, as could his subs. Their relationship is entirely within the fantasy realm, but can last for years.
The Bedroom Dom
He only dominates in the bedroom. Outside of sex, he’s not interested in controlling aspects of her life. They can be entirely equal in every other part of their relationship.
The Part Time Dom
He doesn’t want to live with his sub, but would rather have encounters and scenes with her on a part time basis.
The 24/7 Dom
He wants control over her at all times, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. His dominance permeates all aspects of her life.
The Wannabe
He hasn’t actually dominated someone, but wants to. He’s usually younger and still learning how things work. Often, he’ll talk big - even bigger than those who actually do.
The Trophy Collector
His interest is primarily in how many subs he’s had. Relationships with him don’t generally last long, because he’s more interested in the chase.
The Stable Master (or Harem Keeper)
He wants to have lots of subs under his command, to be called upon whenever he wants something from them.
The Caretaker
His primary interest is in using his discipline to improve her life. He’ll force her to do things that he considers good for her, whether she wants it or not.
The Loveless Dom
He doesn’t love his slave. Their relationship is purely utilitarian, and he reserves the right to end it whenever it’s no longer convenient for him, or after a prescribed period of time.
The Abuser
The abuser can love his sub, but his own neuroses cause him to tear her down and reduce her security so that she hangs on out of fear rather than love. Rules will change randomly, and he will punish for transgressions she didn’t even know about. Often he’ll justify it as “keeping her on her toes”. Living with an abuser requires her to walk on eggshells.
The Sadist
He finds satisfaction in making her suffer for him. Such a dominant needs a woman who is happy to sacrifice for him to show her devotion.
The Butcher
He likes to see blood and gore. His ideal sub is one who wants to be permanently marked up and mutilated.
The Sgt Major
He is extremely regimented, and prescribes not only what she will do, but how she will do it. Her speech, mannerisms, and actions must be impeccable. His control is absolute.
The Director
Like the Sgt Major, he wants things to happen a specific way, except that he insists on telling his sub before each “scene” how things will go, who will do what, and in what order, like a director giving instructions to actors.
The Title (Mr Leather)
He insists that everyone refer to him as “Master Soandso.” He wears all the right gear, to the point that he looks out of place in any normal setting. To him, the status matters above all else.
The Subly Dom
He calls himself dominant, but he’s actually submissive. He can put on a domly show for a little while, but very soon he’ll be seeking your approval.
The Servant Dom
He dominates, but only in the ways she wants him to. The servant dom is tuned to her feelings, and will change what he does in response to the vibe he gets from her. She in turn picks up on this, and becomes more anxious because she’s now the one controlling the relationship, which is exactly what she doesn’t want (unless she likes to top from the bottom).
The Mess
He is dominant, but his life is in shambles and he can’t seem to get his shit together. His chaos amplifies hers, making her feel even less secure than she would on her own.
The Irresponsible
He doesn’t think very far ahead, and ignores the consequences of his actions. He is sincere, but extremely dangerous.
The Bipolar
He’ll jump from happy to angry in an instant. His sub has to be VERY careful about what she says and does, because so many things will set him off.
You are the perfect kind of Dominant for me, Sir!
The slave owner, 24/7 Dom, Sadist and Caretaker. Everything I love, want and need in a Dominant as an all-time slave who likes to show her devotion through (among other things) sacrifice and needs a lot of care and love. You are the absolute perfect match for me! We are the perfect match for each other! 🖤
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Looking into these today.
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